We might only be prepared to admit it to our best friends, but there are times when we women really, really need to stand out as being the most stunningly attractive woman in the room, and the first time you see your ex after he has dumped you or the first time you know you are going to see him with his new girlfriend or wife are two perfect examples.
Women who are faced with the dreaded ‘ex situation’ tend to go for one of a number of looks, although often it is the ‘sex kitten, see what you’re missing’ look that wins out. If the guy is still single, then this may well have the desired effect, but if he has already moved on to pastures new then it can leave you feeling a little foolish if your replacement is drop dead gorgeous, if your ex is totally into her for completely different reasons or if the woman in question is not so much a woman but a lady of class and refinement.
Usually, the best way to handle the dilemma of what to wear when meeting the ex is to dress in a way which shows your ability to rise above the situation, and that means turning up looking chic, sophisticated and elegant. The air of slight aloofness which can work very well with this look is one which says quite clearly, ‘I’m over you. I’m worth more than you. I have moved on.’ Try for aloofness in an outfit that is short, tight and leaves little to the imagination and you are more likely to come across as ‘the woman scorned’.
One of the quickest and easiest ways to achieve a look of extreme class and elegance is by using a fabulous silk scarf or silk shawl to dress up your outfit. The 100% pure silk fabric is important here because its unmistakable quality gives the message that you know you are worth the best and that from now on you intend to make sure that your life is filled with nothing less.
When you are choosing a women’s silk scarf or shawl for occasions when you need to feel totally confident, it is always better to select a hand painted scarf or a hand dyed shawl because only these incorporate unique designs. The last thing you want when you are making your big statement is to be caught out wearing the same as your ex’s new love. Consider the color of the main elements of your outfit and then select your silk scarf or shawl so that it coordinates perfectly for that look of total chic.
No matter what the circumstances, if you ever find yourself needing to feel brimming with confidence, always choose carefully what you wear because some outfits really can make you feel on top of the world. A look of sophisticated elegance never fails to make confidence levels soar, so wrap yourself up in a luxury, hand painted silk scarf or shawl and your head will always be held high and proud.
Julie-Ann.
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